The Good, The Bad and The Amusing--Life in Ukraine

The sun shines on drifted snow creating a serene winter wonderland outside my window. I thank God for the gift of life and eyesight so I can enjoy this picturesque sight. After reflecting all morning on life and grace and trust, I say another prayer for those who are sorrowing, sad and unfulfilled.

Even with the beauty before me, I feel sadness over the loss of life that occurred yesterday. The man who so carefully cared for our home this summer while we were on outreaches, Valeriy, was tragically killed in a car accident along with his wife, Svetlana, and twelve year old son, Bogdan. I feel a deep sorrow because of the short life that this young boy led. I remember how excited he was to spend time at our house with his dad and the constant smile on his father’s lips. But I am grateful for the chance to have known both of them. I wish I had been able to get to know the wife/mother. And I know there are many family members grieving for this family, especially a very dear sister, Luba. In times like these, we cannot help but as the question, “Why?” But I have come to the conclusion that I must trust the One who cares the most and leave that in His capable hands.

Ukraine is changing and emerging into a modern and capitalistic country. I am not sure that is especially a good thing. The number of cars on the road increase dramatically on a daily basis. And a “me first” attitude seems to rule all activities in many lives. This attitude along with poor driving ability often causes serious accidents. Alcoholism also figures into this equation. Unless some serious changes are made soon the numbers of accidents will continue to increase. More families will grieve. I pray that the authorities will intervene soon and drivers will obey safety and traffic laws. But I fear this will not happen any time soon.

Valeriy was a kind hearted, cheerful man. Ukraine was a better place because he lived here. And the world was a better place because he lived to serve others. He was an example to us of love in action and going beyond the norm to help others. I would have to say, he lived what he believed and he will be truly missed.

It’s only through grace that we live each day and I am more than ever determined to try to live each day that God gives me in a way that will glorify Him and help others. And I plan to enjoy those I know and love to the fullest. So to each of you, whether stranger, acquaintance, friend, or loved one, I want you to know that you are special and appreciated. May you be blessed and may you enjoy each day of your life.